Never loose your feelings in this unsympathetic world!

     It is better to reaffirm and comfort the people you love everyday and when they needed it most. Than loose them. Do not get tired of reaffirming someone you love everyday. We are humans made by God we are made in blood and emotions. Some people say that you should not be led by your emotions as it ruins the relationship. There is something bad about that. As a human our souls get hurt when we are not being given the proper affirmation. True as they say that hurtful words stab our soul and hearts. It is much worse when those hurtful phrases stings and it usually lingers the longest and it hardest to cure. 

     Have you ever heard of the phrase " HE OR SHE IS NOT YOUR PROPERTY YET, AND YOU DO NOT HOLD MY LIFE?" if this phrase came out from the mouth of someone you love. I know it will make you feel irritated, annoyed and probably would question your capacity to love them or question yourself if you deserve them. To be honest I hated this phrase! It is painful to hear it even in my own ears. How would you react if someone you love told you this? For someone they wouldn't bother to think about this phrase. They would just go away and avoid that person. But how about those people born to be emotional babies especially the ladies. 

       Relationship and re-affirmation should be present in a relationship. If a man re-affirms the woman of his feelings everyday and talk to her in a manner without getting tired. Imagine how many relationships will be save. But if the man gives up and despite your communication that he keeps on doing the things that make you feel uncomfortable and insecure, chances are the relationship will fail. And if a man fail to re-affirm your feeling and shut you down, it means he never values you in the first place nor your care and love that you have for him. Relationship is a one way street but both should agree and coordinate with each other, despite ones differences

     As a woman who experience this treatment a long time ago it is painful. Because I love that person in front of me and when I heard that it made me furious about it. I exchange words

     "YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED THAT WAY" You don't deserve to be ignored and your feelings should be devalued. Jesus is also aware of that we have feelings and we cry more than men could cry. Because Jesus also felt that pain. To be honest and to give you a kick in a butt don't ever feel bad about your feelings because its the thing that makes us human and if someone doesn't value what you feel when they have hurt you then its time to let go and think about yourself more. Because you deserve to wake up and your feelings to be acknowledge. Jealousy is normal feeling when we love someone. It is not bad to feel it intensely as protecting someone because jealousy can be a sign that we care about someone deeply and we value their welfare as much as ourselves. 
Jesus also felt that to us. So if someone tells you that you do not own them maybe its best to let go and love them from afar. Think about yourself this time

I hope my post help you and God bless us always 

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Be different
Cry if you feel like crying
Never loose your feelings in this unsympathetic world