Thursday, August 17, 2017

Eating Alone is definitely fine!

Are you scared to be alone? The most scariest, is feeling alone when you have someone beside you. I want to encourage woman out there who eats alone and waiting. Waiting always and all they do is wait and adjust themselves for the comforts of others. How long will you wait for him to go home for him to change or even care to look at your self efforts. When was the last time he care to even look at you or even see your value in doing things for him?  Or are you afraid to leave him or are you just afraid to eat alone. When will you ever wake up? Or are you adjusting yourself for him?
Is he always coming home late? or perhaps have abandoned you because of money? Does he loose to give time to you when something came up.

Before anything else I want to encourage you to pray. And ask yourself are you still happy?
If a man is treating you as his less priority perhaps its time to stand on your own. Think about yourself more. I know you have a good soul and cannot leave him. But does he appreciates your effort all the time? Does he often end the conversation without your consent? Are you fed up with fighting  with endless conversation? And are you fed up with a man who makes you insecure?

The next best thing to do is Pray to God to give you the strength to let go of this guy who doesn't value the existence of you. You have a good heart but do not let someone abused it by not thinking about yourself. Respect is needed in every relationship it is the first foundation of relationship established by Jesus for women and men in a loving relationship. Second is Loyalty in boundaries established and self control of not to hurt your feelings. I know that it is going to be hard to leave someone who has been in your heart for the longest time. But praying for God for strength and clear consciences on your decisions help to weed out those feelings. It is a process...

But Eating alone is definitely fine.....  its the most and satisfying thing to do!
God bless you that this blog post may help you decide...
Love you girl

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