We cannot love a man who is not contented

      "Because at the end of the day we have the power to choose who we love, and if they ever feel that they are lucky about choosing money over you. Perhaps they were not meant for that sincere  love that you were giving" Then Choose to love yours elf and surround yourself with people who makes you smile and makes an effort to make you happy.

    It breaks my heart to see women who are abandon by men who choose a direct path in choosing the slippery path of money. Such women are being left with questions about where did they go wrong and sometimes leave them in a self pity manner. Crying about the failed relationship. 
Its been a year since I myself have experience such unfair situation. But I am thankful that as earlier as possible I realized what I value and what I deserve. And then I realized that man who choose money over the women don't succeed in the end. As a woman we deserve to be given the highest respect and we are to be valued. Men who choose the option of money over the quality of women. These men are so positioned in their high horses that they they think that nothing can go wrong. What they didn't realized is that their possessions don't last long. It was said in the bible that gathering richness in the world don't last long. Men who values money everyday gets up earlier and sleeps awfully tired. It is a slippery slope down to depression. Money is supplied by God he opens and takes away. This is the universal truth. If a man have left you in trade of money let him be. For he cannot see your worth and value. If he said that you add drama in his life then maybe its time to let him go. At the end of the day I just want to say that it will always be only you who would pick in that deep low situation that man has left you. I know the feeling is painful as if you do not measure up. But let me tell you something. It is not for you to deal it. There is someone out there who would value your constant loyalty, kindness and love. I am thankful that God was able to heal me in that phase of my life today. I have put myself the right boundary and to love myself. Always remember that if we have loved people correctly and its not enough. It is not our fault because we are more lucky because we have experience the true love that we are capable of and that is protective,understandable and most of  all the type of love that is more sensitive because it doesn't expire and does not need to replenished. Stored treasures such as richness and money are just temporary. So how do we start moving on?

I asked myself the same question, but there is no direct cure. All I know is the right way. To pray and forgive them in our minds and most of all give love and time for ourselves. Because true contentment starts at loving ourselves and it will just flow. 

It takes patience to go on each day. But like I said start in taking care of yourself. Write a diary than sharing your hurtful thoughts to someone. And last but not the least  pray. Sooner or later the pain that you felt when someone choose to leave you over material things. You'll realized that they were never a big loss in your life. Choose what you believed in and stand on your ground. Because we cannot love a man is not contented in the end it will only drain us and kill the belief we have. A man who is a lover of money may also be a man who is also not contented with one woman.

It never entered my mind that a man like that would exist. But no matter how I nurse and put bandage in those happy memories. I was certain that this man cannot exist in my life.

Love yourself and stand in what you believed in. And as for money it will be provided.... Just hang on girl God loves you so much that he takes away such poisonous human beings.

To date I am now happy and full of greater hope for myself....... 

Thank you for reading..... :)